This big piece of hurt...

I have been carrying this big piece of hurt inside me today and at this moment, it feels as if the only thing I can do, is to blog it away..

What do you do when a person who is very close to you (and whom you trust and love) is involved in something so bad that you want to throw up every time you think about it? And there is more...you did not know about it, but just happened to stumble upon it? Do you confront, try to discuss, stay numb or just do the ostrich thing and hope it will all go away?

Well, I've been crying the whole day....trying to make sense of it...trying to work out how I must handle it. I admit, it's too big for me just now...so...please pray with me for guidance?

Please Lord Jesus, help me with this....show me what to do when...Amen